We get these party questions frequently
Curious about how it all works? What to wear? What is expected of you at a party?
We get it if you have loads of questions before attending an Intime Party. Here, you’ll find answers to the most common ones. Each party is different, but these answers hopefully helps you understand the ground rules and our fundamental approach to hosting events.
If there’s something else you’re wondering about, feel free to DM us. We read every message with care and will get back to you asap.
Can I come alone?
Yes, in multiple ways you can come alone… But we recommend arriving with a FWB, a partner or a date of another sex to make sure the night is a good mix of genders. But you’re also welcome to apply for a spot on your own.
How is the gender mix?
We believe in openess and every gender is welcomed. We always make sure to mix the people on each night. We’re not a single men’s club.
What should I bring to the party?
Bring yourself, a nice attitude, and a great outfit and underwear. Maybe some toys if you feel like it. Drinks, condoms, towels and intimate oils are always included in the price.
What’s the vibe?
Think candlelight, crémant, silk dresses, celebration, good music, white sheets, and, often, a big bath tub. No red velvet, no leather, no hardcore fetishes. No pressure. The Intime Parties are about celebrating, meeting new people, having a good time, and perhaps have sex if you feel like it.
Where do the parties take place?
In private, high-end spaces — hotel suites, private apartments, hidden rooms in Copenhagen. The exact location is shared upon confirmation, but write us if you want more details beforehand.
What’s the dresscode?
Dress to feel your best. Think sensual, elegant, and refined. Suits, silk, lingerie under layers. No jeans, no costumes, no sneakers.
How do I join?
DM us. Tell us a little about yourself and what draws you in. If it feels like a good match, we’ll share the details with you after the written deadline. If you attend more parties, you won’t have to apply all over again, just let us know that you want to join.
Who are the parties for?
For adults (23+) who are curious about sensuality, presence and connection — in a respectful, beautiful setting. You don’t need to have experience. You just need to come with openness and care.
How much does it cost to attend a party?
The price for an evening varies depending on location and the scale of the event. We usually say between 850DKK and 1200DKK for a party per person. There’s always a discount if you bring a friend of another sex.
What is included when I buy a ticket?
Besides the rent of the spaces included, we provide crémant, soft drinks, condoms, towels for showering or hopping in the tub, and intimate oils. If you want to bring some lovely toys that bring you pleasure, or your own drinks on top of what we offer, you are more than welcome.
Do I have to have sex?
No. Never. That’s why we call them sex-positive parties. You’re free to flirt, talk, watch, connect or go deeper. You can come to play with yourself, with a known sweetheart, or with new, intriguing people. But only if and when it feels right for you, and every guest respects that.
How many people attend?
Usually around 12–20 guests. Every group is hand-picked for the right mix of energy, warmth and intention for that specific night.
Is it safe?
Yes. We take your safety seriously. We provide condoms, lubricant, clean towels and other essentials to support safer sex.
But just as important: we curate the room carefully. Every guest is selected with care and aligned with our values.
Consent is non-negotiable. Disrespect, pressure or boundary-crossing will lead to immediate removal — no discussion. If anything feels off, please let us know. We’re here to hold the space and keep it safe and sexy for everyone.
