Our FAQs
Curious about how it all works? What to wear? What is expected of you at a gathering?
We get it if you have loads of questions before attending an Intime Night. Here, you’ll find answers to the most common ones.
Each party is different, but these answers hopefully helps you understand the ground rules and our fundamental approach to hosting events.
If there’s something else you’re wondering about, feel free to write us. We read every message with care and will get back to you asap.
Can I come alone?
Yes, in multiple ways you can come alone, and lots of our guests do. We love both singles and couples.
How is the gender mix?
We believe in openess and every gender is welcomed. We always make sure to mix the people on each night. We’re not a single men’s club, don’t worry. If you’re female, you can relax and explore your wants without worrying about guys chasing you.
What should I bring to the party?
Bring your wounderful self, a nice attitude, a deep understanding of what active consent means, and a great outfit, of course. Maybe some toys if you feel like it. Condoms, drinks, snacks and towels are always included in the price.
What’s the vibe?
Think good lighting, great wine, silk dresses, suits, celebration, lovely music, white sheets, and nice interior.
There’s no pressure. Some people have a lot of shared experiences, some people join to start their journey into this world, some people just talk and have a nice evening with cool and like-hearted people. The Intime Nights are about celebrating, meeting new people, having a good time, and perhaps more if you feel like it.
Where do The Intime Nights take place?
In different spacious and private spaces with attention to details in central Copenhagen. The exact location of each event is shared upon confirmation, and every Intime Night has its own vibe.
What’s the dresscode?
Dress to impress, always. Think sensual, elegant, and refined. Suits, silk, heels, dress shoes, lingerie under layers. No jeans, no costumes, no sneakers, no casual wear, no festish wear and no masks. Maison Intime is a place for arriving as your most refined - and authentic - self.
How do I join?
You request to get invited here. You can always request to get an invite to our waiting list in general, it doesn’t have to be to a specific party.
If it feels like a good match, we’ll send you a personal invitation and share the details with you. If you attend more parties, you won’t have to apply all over again, just let us know that you want to join via e-mail.
Who are the events for?
We create spaces with attention to aesthetics, yummy scents and good lighting for adults (23+) who are curious about sensuality, presence and connection - in a respectful, beautiful setting.
Our vibe is warm vanilla for people who don’t connect with the classical scene in Copenhagen. You don’t need to have experience before entering an Intime Night. You just need to come with openness and care.
What is included when I buy a ticket?
We provide everything you need to keep you safe and clean, happy and hydrated throughout the night. The concepts vary, but just know you’re taken care of.
Do I have to have sex?
No, you never have to do anything you don’t feel like. You’re free to flirt, talk, watch, connect or go deeper. You can come to play with yourself, with a known sweetheart, or with new, intriguing people. But only if and when it feels right for you, and every guest respects that.
How many people attend?
Anything from 10–35 guests. It varies from party to party depending on the vibe we want to create for you. Every group is hand-picked for the just right mix of energy, warmth and intention for that specific night.
Is it safe?
Yes. That’s our foundation. We take safety seriously in every aspect.
Your body: We provide condoms, lubricants, towels and other essentials to support safe experiences. Every guest signs an agreement to have a new and clean STD-test upon arrival.
The space: We always have a professional guard at our events who is there for you if anything feels off. We’re also a team of hosts who are here to make sure everyone feels safe and comfortable.
We curate the room carefully, and every guest is selected with care and aligned with our values.
Consent is non-negotiable. Disrespect, pressure or boundary-crossing will lead to immediate removal - no discussion. If anything feels off, please let us know. We’re here to hold the space and keep it safe and sexy for everyone.