We get these party questions frequently
Curious about how it all works? What to wear? What is expected of you at a party?
We get it if you have loads of questions before attending an Intime Party. Here, you’ll find answers to the most common ones. Each party is different, but these answers hopefully helps you understand the ground rules and our fundamental approach to hosting events.
If there’s something else you’re wondering about, feel free to write us. We read every message with care and will get back to you asap.
Can I come alone?
Yes, in multiple ways you can come alone, and lots of our guests do. We love both singles and couples.
How is the gender mix?
We believe in openess and every gender is welcomed. We always make sure to mix the people on each night. We’re not a single men’s club, don’t worry. If you’re female, you can relax and explore your wants without worrying about guys chasing you.
What should I bring to the party?
Bring your wounderful self, a nice attitude, and a great outfit. Maybe some toys if you feel like it. Drinks, condoms, towels and sex gels are always included in the price.
What’s the vibe?
Think candlelight, crémant, silk dresses, suits, celebration, good music, white sheets and nice interior design. We don’t have swings, BDSM options and darkrooms.
There’s no pressure. Some people have a lot of sex, some people join to start their journey into this world, some people just talk and have a nice evening with cool and like-hearted people. The Intime Parties are about celebrating, meeting new people, having a good time, and perhaps having sex if you feel like it.
Where do the parties take place?
In private, high-end spaces in Copenhagen. The exact location is shared upon confirmation, but write us if you want more details beforehand.
What’s the dresscode?
Dress to impress. Think sensual, elegant, and refined. Suits, silk, heels, dress shoes, lingerie under layers. No jeans, no costumes, no sneakers, no casual wear, no festish wear and no masks. Maison Intime is a place for arriving as your most refined - and authentic - self.
How do I join?
You request to get invited here. You can always request to get an invite to our waiting list in general, it doesn’t have to be to a specific party.
If it feels like a good match, we’ll send you a personal invitation and share the details with you. If you attend more parties, you won’t have to apply all over again, just let us know that you want to join via e-mail.
Who are the parties for?
We create spaces with attention to aesthetics, great scents and good lighting for adults (23+) who are curious about sensuality, presence and connection - in a respectful, beautiful setting. Our vibe is warm vanilla for people who don’t connect with the classical sex scene in Copenhagen. You don’t need to have experience before entering an Intime Party. You just need to come with openness and care.
How much does it cost to attend a party?
The price for an evening varies depending on location and the scale of the event. We usually say between 975DKK and 1500DKK for a party per person.
What is included when I buy a ticket?
Besides the rent of the spaces included, we provide high quality cava, drinks, alchohol free options, soft drinks, condoms, towels for showering, and sex gels from sitre. If you want to bring some lovely toys that bring you pleasure, or your own drinks on top of what we offer, you are more than welcome.
Do I have to have sex?
No. Never. That’s why we call them sex-positive parties. You’re free to flirt, talk, watch, connect or go deeper. You can come to play with yourself, with a known sweetheart, or with new, intriguing people. But only if and when it feels right for you, and every guest respects that.
How many people attend?
Usually around 15–30 guests. It varies from party to party depending on the vibe we want to create for you with the given event. Every group is hand-picked for the right mix of energy, warmth and intention for that specific night.
Is it safe?
Yes. We take your safety seriously. We provide condoms, lubricant, clean towels and other essentials to support safer sex. We expect every guest to have a new and clean STD-test upon arrival.
We always have a professional guard at our events who is there for you if anything feels off.
We curate the room carefully, and every guest is selected with care and aligned with our values.
Consent is non-negotiable. Disrespect, pressure or boundary-crossing will lead to immediate removal - no discussion. If anything feels off, please let us know. We’re here to hold the space and keep it safe and sexy for everyone.